Staying On The Grateful Side Of Life
August 22nd, 2010
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by Lee Wise · Filed Under: Balance In Life · Family · Gratefulness · Life Management · Online marketing training · asking good questions · attraction marketing excellence · business journal · celebrating life · character development · personal development · self development · success

Staying On The Grateful Side Of Life
Deciding to take advantage of the weather and the convenience of my laptop computer, I ventured out to the deck in the back of our home, opened up the file for this year’s journal, and proceeded to copy and past this phrase into its proper place:
My gratefulness journal for today…
Several moments later my entry looked similar to this one:
My gratefulness journal for today…
- So grateful for Sherry… same “song,” millionth verse, lol!
- I think I will say “the deck” again. I decided to come out and record a few things because I understand in an hour or two thunderstorms may come our way.
- Music.
- Very grateful for Coaching Cognition.
- The Lord. So “simple,” but where on earth would I be without Him?
Enriched Because Of A Small, “Make It Happen” Choice
Several months earlier I made the choice to create the phrase “My gratefulness journal for today” with a goal of completing a personal gratefulness exercise at least once a week.
I am happy for my choice. Actually, I would use the term enriched. Enriched because of…
- The simplicity involved in making it happen.
- The rewards of doing so.
On The Value Of Being Grateful
Not long ago I not only prayed this prayer but wrote it down for others to see:
Father, may my eyes see
what my heart should in gratefulness feel this day.
PrayingSimple by © Lee Wise
I share this with you here not because I expect you to approach gratefulness from a faith based perspective, but to state how I personally feel about our need to cultivate gratefulness in our lives.
Gratefulness, in my mind, touches so many aspects of who we are and who we choose to become.
For instance, I did a search for some of my own thoughts on the subject and below may be found only several of the ideas I created in recent days:
- Wisdom – embedding images of beauty in the mind by constantly revisiting them with a joyful and grateful heart. © Lee Wise
- As encouragement inspires hope so gratefulness cultivates the expressive heart of an encourager. © Lee Wise
- In gratefulness I see better and in seeing better I acquire more for which I am grateful. © Lee Wise
Note that my thoughts about encouragement, wisdom and perspective found their way into what I might call my own sphere of “gratefulness thinking.”
Yes, And Your Point Is…?
My point…
Our decisions to cultivate and promote the gratefulness habit in ourselves and in the lives of other people are decisions that count for something good in a world where not all is good all of the time.
- Our “gratefulness habit decisions” count for us,
- And they count for those we influence.
Okay, Lee. How Would You Define “The Gratefulness Habit”?
Let’s try looking at the practice of being grateful as something like this:
The Gratefulness Habit
The decisions I make to see all the good I can,
As consistently as I possibly can,
For the internal health of myself
And those within my circle of influence.
© Lee Wise
What It Does
In my opinion, the ongoing development of the gratefulness habit can:
- Help us bring things into perspective.
- Help us … or “force” us… to stop and look at things in a positive light.
- Slow us down and cause us to push our internal pause button and to do so for a good reason.
- Prompt us to look outside of ourselves instead of only at ourselves.
- Lead us to others for the purpose of helping or thanking them in some way.
Questions For Influence. Questions For Life.
- Should your child (older or younger) want to know how you personally stay on the gratefulness side of life, how would you answer them?
- On the way to an internet marketing conference a friend of yours — one of the speakers — calls and says: “Say, I need someone to fill in a ‘bullet point’ ten minutes time frame on a topic to help everyone: at topic like gratefulness for instance. I know it’s short notice, but can you step in and fill in the gap for me?” Assuming you answer in the affirmative, what would you say?
- While interacting with your personal coach about a seeming gap between your goals and your reality, she states: “Now tell me, what positive points are you seeing in your life right now.” How would you respond?
- What part does gratefulness play in your life, business, or in your mental or physical health? Assuming you could record a great variety of ways — and assuming the question began your thinking — does anyone come to mind you should share any of your responses with?
- Do the important people in your life — those for whom you would say you are extremely grateful — would you also say they most assuredly would know of your feelings?
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Lee is a writer, online marketer and coach. With a passion for on purpose living and making a positive impact in the world, he seeks to encourage people in their personal and professional lives. See hisInspirational Handbook for Attraction Marketers here http://attractionmarketinghandbook.com
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May these brief words of mine prove to be a blessing for you and those you love in one way or another.
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