Questions For Excellence – Creating Safe Environment Skills

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Questions For Excellence…

Our “Creating Safe

Environments” Skills

Excellence For Business.

Excellence For Life.

This is fourth in a series based on my responses from Kendall Sylva’s excellent article on The Coaching Mindset.  Following my read of that article, I summarized a list for me to grow as a person and as a life coach, and posted those questions next to my desk for review, inspiration and my own self growth and development.

As I have mentioned in this series, I feel these questions may help whether you are:

My Question For You Today…

“How Can I Practice

Creating Safe Environments

For People?”

We often need places of physical, spiritual and emotional refuge in our lives.  Maybe several of your own stops at such places will come to mind as you read this quote:
Safe Places
Places of refuge
we seek, welcome
and at at times run to
for acceptance, affirmation and
encouragement during the journeys of our lives.
© Lee Wise
Safe environments can help to heal hearts, give hope to the hurting, encourage the timid and inspire the victorious. Active listening, questioning while the heart is in tune to the needs of another person, “broadcasting” relational messages of acceptance or affirmation, and a variety of other signals we send can offer precious moments of being in a “safe place” for others.
  • Places that care.
  • Places where the agenda includes us instead of excludes us.
  • Places where the power of relationship means more than the urgency of an agenda.
  • Places of hope instead of demands.

We need such places. Think about it:

  • Suppose you took a day — just one day — to think about being or becoming a safe place for those who step into your world. For you, what would have to take place on the inside for that “space” to be created?
  • How might that “safe place” look or feel like should someone call you or even stop in just to say “Hi!”
  • What have “safe places” meant to you in your life? Who gave them to you?  Were they all major times or did the meaningful one include the so termed “minor” times as well?  Chances meetings at a coffee shop, park or while out jogging.  A sudden sincere question “from out of the blue” that caught you right where you needed to be “caught.”  A glance or look that for some reason or another you knew — you knew — you were in the presence of a sincere invitation to “stop on over” and engage in a level of meaningful dialogue.

Your Turn!

  • Take an emotional road trip while reflecting on the thoughts made in the previous bullet points.
  • Now that you are traveling on that road trip, what would you add?  How would you say things in your way relative to the subject of what it means to experience the beauty of being in a safe place with another human being?
  • If you had to give three tips on creating safe places for others, what would they be?  Just three?
  • Are you an attraction marketer, team leader in a network marketing organization, a parent, friend, spouse or life partner that — by chance — may be reading this post and you find yourself realizing that you need to get down to business when it comes to creating a safe place for those you care for?

A Brief Quote To Consider

On Loving People…

Caring for others is an ongoing process
of creating safe environments for people
to enjoy in one form or another
while in your presence.
© Lee Wise

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Closely related to the subject of creating safe places is the idea of affirming people.  The video below lasts approximately one minute and I made it go along with this post.  Let me know what you think!

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Questions For Excellence – Our Observing People Skills

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Questions For Excellence…

Our Observing People Skills

Excellence For Business.

Excellence For Life.

Continuing this brief series, these were my observations from an excellent article on The Coaching Mindset by Kendall Silva. I have these posted directly by my computer to use for motivation, inspiration and ongoing skill development.

Once again, I feel these questions may help whether you are:

My Question For You Today…

“How Can I Increase My ‘Observe People’ Skills Today?”

Think about it:

  • You could be going to the doctor’s office (as I will be in a few short hours) and during that time you could just simple say to yourself “I’m going take a few minutes ‘just to observe.’  I will be a learner.”
  • What could you learn about people — in short “chunks” of time — that would increase your skills in the area of learning from, listening to, enjoying, or helping out people?  As yesterday’s post was on taking advantage of the power of story, maybe the two could be combined in some way: i.e. not only listening to someone’s story that you prompted by also increasing in your “people observation skills” in the process.
  • You could learn by segmenting.  I used to share with the men in my class to do this: you create a “filter” for the day and watch people according to the filter you create.  For instance, one example I gave them was: “Watch dads today in church.  Just pay attention to what they do, don’t do, need to do, etc. Whatever: you create what you desire to focus on.”

Your Turn!

  • Reflect on the examples I gave above… and expand on those thoughts.  Take them into your world of parenting, network marketing, personal relationships, training, preaching, teaching… whatever.  You are creative!
  • In what you already know about people, suppose you were to create an article, post or a teaching session of some sort on “The Top Two Affirming Characteristics I’ve Seen In People”: what would you list?  What might you write on?  How could you inspire, encourage or be a positive influence in the world through what you have observed and what you would write?
  • Could your observations be the beginning of a “how to” article, blog post, slide presentation or a short video?

A Brief Quote To Consider

On Learning From Others

We learn that we may become better people:

for it is in the art of becoming

that we contribute to our world,

ourselves, and all we seek to influence.

May we become all we can for the purpose of

helping others do the same.

© Lee Wise

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It dawned on me that even though I’ve been posting more these past 30 plus day, that many may not have seen my brief video on my ebook that complements most all of the posting I have done over this 31 day period of time.  It could be of a help to many!  So with that in mind, I included the video below. Don’t worry: it’s brief: 2 minutes, 50 seconds to be exact!


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Questions For Excellence – On The Power Of Story

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Questions For Excellence…

On The Power Of Story

Excellence For Business.

Excellence For Life.

Recently I jotted down several questions to keep me motivated, learning and growing as a life coach.  These were my observations from an excellent article on The Coaching Mindset by Kendall Silva.

I feel these questions may help whether you are:

My Question For You Today…

“How can I capitalize on the Power Of Story today?”

Think about it:

  • Could I ask others to share their story in a creative fashion? Or, simply ask to hear their stories?
  • What types of questions could I design to bring the positive, life affirming stories of others to the forefront?
  • Could I ask someone to share their story in my teaching, influencing, training, online marketing, or part of my questioning in the context of a coaching time?

Your Turn!

  • Think of a story that has impacted your life.  Short, long, or in between: it doesn’t make a difference.
  • Could it be shared with someone you for encouragement, growth, training, teaching or inspiring?
  • Could it be the beginning of a “how to” article, blog post, slide presentation or a short video?

A Brief Quote To Consider

On The Power Of Stories

Stories can become

someone’s inspiration for today, hope for tomorrow

or learning for the moment.

May we use their such power often,

use it well, and use it for every noble purpose we can imagine.

© Lee Wise

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And don’t forget my book Stay Motivated! An Inspirational Handbook For Attraction Marketers. It is a hands on motivational, self development resource for anyone involved in attraction marketing, online business, or even for those involved in training others.

May these brief words of mine prove to be a blessing for you and those you love in one way or another.

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Attraction Marketing Excellence – 7 Days Of Ideas For Growth

Attraction Marketing Excellence 7 Ideas For Personal Growth

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7 Days Of Ideas For Growth

7 Days Of Ideas Personal Growth Ideas: A Summary Of The Past Week (August 21-27)

My suggestions for capturing the best you can from this brief summary of this week’s posts.

  • Take a quick — but not too quick — read of the post titles.
  • And, be sure to take in several of the comments that have been highlighted.
  • Develop a beginning list for your own business and self development growth plans of action for the next week or month.
  • Create Idea File for those “Not yet but I sure would like to get back to that idea and not forget it” types of thoughts.
  • Read with “Influence Eyes” in terms of sharing good material with others.
  • Think about “One good thought for one good purpose” as you review the titles, record your thought and act. And, by the way, do any good title of your own come to mind that you could use in any way?

Last Week’s Summary

Staying On The Grateful Side Of Life

  • A brief but very hands on reminder about the importance of staying grateful in our lives.
  • One comment read: “I love how you carved time out to write in your gratitude journal. What if everyone had one?.”
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What Does Relational Success Look Like?

  • Brief points that are made with a series of thoughtful questions designed to help us grow in our relationships.
  • Short, but a sizable amount of information compacted in one small space for you!
  • Click here.

Finding Simple Beauty In A Not So Simple World

  • An easy read that takes you into the world of simple pleasures in our world. At the risk of sounding a bit on the conceited side of life, I think this is a good exercise to go through!
  • Click here.

The Power Of One Small Thing — Just One

  • One commented made the statement about what was read: “that one resonated?”  This is very hands on in nature by the way.
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9 Things That Matter With Our Kids — Winning At Home While We Work From Home

  • In my personal opinion, this one is very important if you happen to be a parent.  Very brief, packed with meaning statements about things that really — as in really — do matter in our parenting efforts.
  • After reading this post, one person said: “Great blog. Your commitment to service is evident. My first-born just left for college. I wish I’d read more books and blogs like yours before he left.
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Two Simple Questions For Non-Simplistic Personal And Business Results

  • Don’t let the brevity of these two question slide on by you for someone else to catch them: they are definitely worth a “look see.”
  • Here’s the comment on that post: “I totally agree with those two questions about thinking. Our minds can play tricks on us and we need to be aware of what’s in it.”
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Attraction Marketing Excellence – 7 Days Of Personal Growth Ideas

  • You got it!  This is last weeks summary of the posts.  An easy place to saunter on over and check out the layout of last week’s land layout of the land.
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That’s It For The Past Week!

  • In listening to the rhythms of your own heart while reading through the titles or one of the comments, did anything stand out that you should record, reflect on or take time to stop by and read the related post?
  • Are you a blogger?  Any ideas about creating your own post or article?

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Lee is a writerOnline Marketer and Life Coach. With a passion for on purpose living and making a positive impact in the world, he seeks to encourage people in their personal and professional lives. Love self growth and personal development?  See his Inspirational Handbook for Attraction Marketershere http://attractionmarketinghandbook.com

Feel stuck or like you need a boost anywhere in your life at this time? Seize a FREE 15 minute sessionwith Lee. Go here now  http://leewise.marketingmerge.com/coaching

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Staying On The Grateful Side Of Life

Staying Grateful!

Staying On The Grateful Side Of Life

Deciding to take advantage of the weather and the convenience of my laptop computer, I ventured out to the deck in the back of our home, opened up the file for this year’s journal, and proceeded to copy and past this phrase into its proper place:

My gratefulness journal for today…

Several moments later my entry looked similar to this one:

My gratefulness journal for today…

  • So grateful for Sherry… same “song,” millionth verse, lol!
  • I think I will say “the deck” again.  I decided to come out and record a few things because I understand in an hour or two thunderstorms may come our way.
  • Music.
  • Very grateful for Coaching Cognition.
  • The Lord.  So “simple,” but where on earth would I be without Him?

Enriched Because Of A Small, “Make It Happen” Choice

Several months earlier I made the choice to create the phrase “My gratefulness journal for today” with a goal of completing a personal gratefulness exercise at least once a week.

I am happy for my choice. Actually, I would use the term enriched.  Enriched because of…

  • The simplicity involved in making it happen.
  • The rewards of doing so.

On The Value Of Being Grateful

Not long ago I not only prayed this prayer but wrote it down for others to see:

Father, may my eyes see

what my heart should in gratefulness feel this day.

PrayingSimple by © Lee Wise

I share this with you here not because I expect you to approach gratefulness from a faith based perspective, but to state how I personally feel about our need to cultivate gratefulness in our lives.

Gratefulness, in my mind, touches so many aspects of who we are and who we choose to become.

For instance, I did a search for some of my own thoughts on the subject and below may be found only several of the ideas I created in recent days:

  • Wisdom – embedding images of beauty in the mind by constantly revisiting them with a joyful and grateful heart. © Lee Wise
  • As encouragement inspires hope so gratefulness cultivates the expressive heart of an encourager. © Lee Wise
  • In gratefulness I see better and in seeing better I acquire more for which I am grateful. © Lee Wise

Note that my thoughts about encouragement, wisdom and perspective found their way into what I might call my own sphere of “gratefulness thinking.”

Yes, And Your Point Is…?

My point…

Our decisions to cultivate and promote the gratefulness habit in ourselves and in the lives of other people are decisions that count for something good in a world where not all is good all of the time.

  • Our “gratefulness habit decisions” count for us,
  • And they count for those we influence.

Okay, Lee.  How Would You Define “The Gratefulness Habit”?

Let’s try looking at the practice of being grateful as something like this:

The Gratefulness Habit

The decisions I make to see all the good I can,

As consistently as I possibly can,

For the internal health of myself

And those within my circle of influence.

© Lee Wise

What It Does

In my opinion, the ongoing development of the gratefulness habit can:

  • Help us bring things into perspective.
  • Help us … or “force” us… to stop and look at things in a positive light.
  • Slow us down and cause us to push our internal pause button and to do so for a good reason.
  • Prompt us to look outside of ourselves instead of only at ourselves.
  • Lead us to others for the purpose of helping or thanking them in some way.

Questions For Influence.  Questions For Life.

  • Should your child (older or younger) want to know how you personally stay on the gratefulness side of life, how would you answer them?
  • On the way to an internet marketing conference a friend of yours — one of the speakers — calls and says: “Say, I need someone to fill in a ‘bullet point’ ten minutes time frame on a topic to help everyone: at topic like gratefulness for instance.  I know it’s short notice, but can you step in and fill in the gap for me?”  Assuming you answer in the affirmative, what would you say?
  • While interacting with your personal coach about a seeming gap between your goals and your reality, she states: “Now tell me, what positive points are you seeing in your life right now.”  How would you respond?
  • What part does gratefulness play in your life, business, or in your mental or physical health?  Assuming you could record a great variety of ways — and assuming the question began your thinking — does anyone come to mind you should share any of your responses with?
  • Do the important people in your life — those for whom you would say you are extremely grateful — would you also say they most assuredly would know of your feelings?

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Attraction Marketing Excellence – 7 Days Of Personal Growth Ideas

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7 Days Of Personal Growth Ideas

7 Days Of Ideas Personal Growth Ideas: A Summary Of The Past Week (August 14-20)

Suggestions for getting the most out of this brief review.

  • Take a quick — but not too quick — read of the post titles.
  • And, be sure to take in several of the comments that have been highlighted.
  • Develop a beginning list for your own business and self development growth plans of action for the next week or month.
  • Create Idea File for those “Not yet but I sure would like to get back to that idea and not forget it” types of thoughts.
  • Read with “Influence Eyes” in terms of sharing good material with others.
  • Think about “One good thought for one good purpose” as you review the titles, record your thought and act. And, by the way, do any good title of your own come to mind that you could use in any way?

Last Week’s Summary

“Three Life-Affirming, Life-Directing Questions

  • Simple, straight forward questions to help anyone as they evaluate the various “moves” of their lives.
  • One comment read: “Lee, there are many wonderful value statements to live by, thank you for sharing yours and suggesting these to our value statements.”
  • Click here.

“Be A Champion Quitter!

  • At times the best action to take is simply quit and stop what we may be doing.  See what I am talking about in this brief post.
  • One person said: “This post reminded me of something I quit lately that has change my life…” Read why that comment was made when you arrive at the post!
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“Common Insights On Climbing The Success Ladder”

  • A guest post you will thoroughly enjoy — especially if you like taking in personal stories as powerful examples of what you are communicating.
  • One reader commented: “Natasha tells a compelling story about Leadership and what Leadership represents.”
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“Attraction Marketing Excellence: A Facebook Syndication Example”

  • The topic of “syndication” and “building your tribe” can be seen all over today. This post highlights someone who took created their own Facebook syndication process with rewarding results.
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“The Power Of Affirmation In Business And Life

  • Everyone needs encouragement, and you will be prompted to think through some specific ways to give that encouragement through affirming the worth of others in your own unique manner.
  • Question: who and how might you affirm someone this week?  Get ideas by reading the post!
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“Tweeting For Influence. Tweeting For Excellence.”

  • And speaking of Tweets, I just saw that this particular post had 18 Tweets.  Super.  Love to see that!
  • I enjoy reading encouraging comments like this one from that post: “I appreciate the fact that you actually take time to consider your heart and consistently seek to add value to others.” Why not stop by and see why that particular comment was made?
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“Using The Power Of Five To Enhance Your Life”

  • Short, idea prompting post to enhance your productivity.  Easy to implement.
  • One commenter stated: ’Simple’ and easy to follow tips. Thanks for sharing and prompting action.”
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Okay, That’s It!

  • You may have found yourself getting several ideas for self growth simply by reading through the lists.  Why not stop to capture one or two if you can right now?
  • Listening to the initial rhythms of your own heart, what could you be hearing anything just by reviewing the thoughts above?

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© You may freely distribute this inspirational review. Please include this resource box. I do thank you!

Lee is a writer an online marketer and coach. With a passion for on purpose living and making a positive impact in the world, he seeks to encourage people in their personal and professional lives. See his Inspirational Handbook for Attraction Marketers herehttp://attractionmarketinghandbook.com

Interested in exploring the possibility of working with Lee as a coach? Go here to check out his FREE 15 minute session and learn more. http://marketingmerge.com/coaching

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Using the Power of Five to Enhance Your Life

The Power Of Five!

Using the Power of Five to Enhance Your Life

Either actually — or in your mind — I would like you to scan an area of your choice: preferably a work area such as a home office or something similar.

Not, yet however!

I want you to take a mental scan of your area choice from a very specific vantage point.

Scan With This Perspective

Survey your location with this perspective in mind as you do:

”As I scan my ____ (office, work space, etc.) what ‘productive something’ could I do in five minutes?”

  • Not the next five minutes.
  • Any five minutes.

It could be anything.

  • Calling someone,
  • Putting a file folder away,
  • writing yourself a reminder
  • Or taking a refreshing five minute read.

It just needs to…

  • Take under five minutes
  • And in your mind it should be “a productive something.”

That is, the action should carry with it a sense of emotional worth; some level of emotional significance.

Ready? Go!

Now Here’s What I Like About What You Discovered

Assuming you really did what I asked, you just experienced “the power of five” in your life.

You identified that which was…

  • Doable.
  • By design.
  • Held some level of meaning for you.
  • And could be accomplished in five minutes or less.

“Nice!”

I say “nice,” because of the simplicity and power of what that simple exercise could mean for you at times.

  • You choose the time.
  • You choose the focus.
  • And you “go for it” for only five minutes of your time during any given day.

As you are mulling this over in your mind, allow me to repeat what I mentioned seconds ago.  This is…

  • Doable.
  • By design.
  • Can hold some level of meaning for you.
  • And is accomplished in five minutes or less.

Brainstorming With An Open-Ended List

Expand your imagination about a variety of tasks or activities that could be accomplished in five minutes or less.  What I am terming “productive something” moments.

Travel down the ideas below.  Add your own.  Be creative.  And try it!

If you thought through various concepts or categories, what might come to mind? Categories such as the ones below (or others you discover during your short journey down the page).

Organization

  • What could you organize?
  • Could anything be put away?
  • Any clutter be cleaned up?
  • What about labeling a file folder and filing a piece of information?
  • Dusting maybe?

And your ideas would be…?

Inspiration, Motivation Or Refreshment

  • In five minutes or less, what could you bring into your world or call to your attention that might inspire you, motivate you or bring a moment’s refreshment into your busy day?
  • Do any books come to mind?
  • How about a song, picture or object of some sort?
  • Yoga, deep breathing, stretching, pushups or five minutes of other exercise?

And your ideas would be…?

Ideas

  • Could you have an “idea break”
  • Fun ideas, business ideas, family ideas, etc.  Think ideas by “category” as those I just mentioned for you.

And your ideas would be…?

Blessing Others

  • What could you do in five minutes or under that would encourage or bless someone?
  • Send a note, give them a call, send a text?

And your ideas would be…?

Stopping And Slowing Down

  • Could you meditate or reflect?
  • What about writing only one thought in a journal?
  • Could you stop long enough to enjoy something small?

And your ideas would be…?

Be Creative

  • Could you create a quote, or thought to use for training others?
  • What about reviewing a quote that meant something to you?
  • And what about looking for a cool place to take your husband or wife?
  • Could you find a picture of that blog post you will create later?
  • In five minutes or less could a meaningful personal affirmation be created… or at least begun?
  • Write down one idea for that next article.  It doesn’t have to be 50 ideas, right?  Not now.  This is just your “power of 5” time! Could you?

And your ideas would be…?

Bring Something To “Completion”

Would you consider bringing part of task to a close? Do it!  Wrap it up, shut it down, and bring that part to a close!

You Got It!

By this time — in the even that you stuck with me this far, lol — you totally get the idea!

  • Doable.
  • By design.
  • Holding meaning for you.
  • In five minutes or less!

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Digging Deeper

May these brief words of mine prove to be a blessing for you and those you love in one way or another.

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Tweeting For Influence-Tweeting For Excellence

Excited About Sharing!

Tweeting For Influence.
Tweeting For Excellence.

While reflecting on several thought provoking words that had just passed through my mental grid of the moment, I wrote the following:

“May our words bring healing, our thoughts peace, and our actions harmony. © Lee Wise”

I then…

  • Read them again,
  • Noted my “Yes, I like that!” response,
  • Decided they were good enough to share,
  • And sent them out as a Tweet.

Question: Why Did I Send Out That Tweet?

The answer to that question lies in the process found below:

  • One: I found myself in a reflective mood.
  • Two: My reflective mood led me to more of a creative writing mode.
  • Three: The right words came at the right time. I felt what some might term “in the flow.”
  • Four: I sensed a desire share what I wrote.
  • Five: So I shared it!

Hold On, This Will Make Sense

I listed the five points above for the purpose of helping you “unpack” the meaning of what I will share with you in this brief article.

But for now the point that I wish to make is that in essence I shared my “content” not only because of the process named above but because it:

  • Represented a segment of who Lee Wise is,
  • And it allowed me to express my desire to influence people in a positive manner.

In other words, it provided for me a form of positive self expression for a very personal reason.

Said In Another Way…

  • Who I was,
  • And who I desired to become,
  • Prompted me to fulfill in a very small way a purpose of mine.

In other words…

  • I capitalized on my desires and talents (who I was),
  • Seized the moment to develop my writing skills (who I desired to become),
  • Felt that the words could influence someone in a positive manner (thereby fulfilling my purpose to be a positive influence in the world,
  • And I sent out my Tweet.

“So, Lee: What’s This Got To Do With Me?”

Great question, and a relatively simple answer.

I wanted to prompt your thinking about deciding on purpose to express who you are through your Tweets while continuing by design to be positive influence in the world as you do.

You may be already doing that, I realize.  But then again you may not or you may not be where you might like to be.

I remain far from any sign that reads “Twitter Marketing Guru Here.”

Do I Tweet in an attempt promote various resources that could allow me to experience some level of financial gain?  Of course.  After all, I am an author, coach and consider myself to be an attraction marketer!

Which means, of course, that I Tweet in order to:

  • Promote.
  • Influence.
  • And develop my skills as a writer.

But not necessarily in that order.  Quite honestly, the latter two dominate a great deal of my “mental Tweet time.”  (Am I the last and greatest example of Tweeting for influence or using the resource as a tool for developing personal excellence?  Of course not, but I try!)

Something To Think About…

I know this post will not capture the attention of many, many folks: it’s simply “not where they are.”

But I also feel that a few folks will identify with the basic concept of…

Utilizing a common tool for the purpose of enhancing their efforts to influence others in a positive way, in their own unique manner:

  • Spurned on by their own motivation.
  • Inspired by their own dreams.
  • And challenged by the thought of “doing a bit more for a few more people.”

That’s It!

Should you feel that my simple post complemented a desire or your own or prompted some additional thoughts about giving to others from your heart, it would be neat to hear from you.

By the way, my “Tweet” handle is @Lee_Wise

Several Past Tweets For Your Consideration…

Self Discipline – choosing to consistently do from my heart all that accomplishes the  good intentions of the same. © Lee Wise

Prayer – the gift of being able to help others any time, any where under the best and worst of any circumstance. © Lee Wise

In trying to control too much I may gain too little and lose too much in the process. © Lee Wise

**It Matters** … when more people care about caring for more people. ©Lee Wise

Love – seeing the best in the one you love even as they may be only seeing their worst. © Lee Wise

**It Matters** … whether I listen in love as a dad or simply by the minute so as to simply get it done. © Lee Wise

Life often becomes all that it is because of all that I see it is for me. To live well I must see well.© Lee Wise

TodayFromLee… Try pausing enough to make a listening difference in your own heart and see how it effects the hearts of others. Today.

Connecting with people around the world using internet to help them find Christ.  An exciting opportunity. Click here–> http://su.pr/2dBplu

Journaling… Finding ways to embrace life as life embraces me.©Lee Wise

Boundless webzine..  worthwhile thoughts on the single years from college to career to relationships http://su.pr/2dX2xm

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© Lee Wise All rights reserved. You may freely distribute this inspirational note. The copyright and this resource box must be included.

Lee is a writer, online marketer and coach. With a passion for on purpose living and making a positive impact in the world, he seeks to encourage people in their personal and professional lives. See his Inspirational Handbook for Attraction Marketers here http://attractionmarketinghandbook.com

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Digging Deeper

A Question Or Two…

  • If you set aside two 30 minute “brainstorm and post for the purpose of influence or developing in excellence” sessions this next week, what might they look like?
  • Have you been utilizing any resources that you would get excited about others using or knowing about if you brought those to their attention?  If so, what are they and when could you share?

May these brief words of mine prove to be a blessing for you and those you love in one way or another.

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The Power Of Affirmation In Business And Life

The Affirming Power Of Affirmation

“The Power Of Affirmation

In Business And Life”


The Life Affirming Power Of Affirmation

Yes, I know I used two of the same concepts together: by design.  I relate it as such because we instinctively understand, need and relate to “the life affirming power of affirmation.”

May I offer one among many quotes on affirmation?  It may help to think about affirmation in this manner:

Affirmation

Gifting the sense of worth to people

by creative design and purpose-filled resolve.

© Lee Wise

I would like you to keep that quote in mind — and your own sense of what being affirmed means to you and those around you — as you read through the very brief listing of what I am terming “I can” statements of affirmation.

My reason for sharing these brief points with you will serve serve as a…

“Review of the obvious
for the obvious to rule”

And what on earth do I mean by that statement?

Answer: I mean it as a creative statement to stay with you for the purpose of using the obvious power of affirmation to rule, or take place, as your heart leads you to do so while reading through the list below.

“I Can Statements Of Affirmation”

As you read through the following statements, I know you will tend to modify, change, think of ideas, and possibly reflect on your past or dream about the future.

That’s the point!

Your perspective is your life.  Business. Home life. Parenting. Attraction marketing. Relating. Coaching. Training. Influencing. Working at home.  Educational pursuits.  The whole enchilada to to speak!

Read. Reflect. And respond as your heart directs.

Now on the the “I can” statements of affirmation.

  • I can affirm potential.
  • I can affirm a person’s “first steps.”
  • I can affirm abilities.
  • I can affirm choices.
  • I can affirm giving or encouraging.
  • I can affirm positive patterns of behavior.
  • I can affirm community service.
  • I can affirm progress in anything.
  • I can affirm extra effort.
  • I can affirm patterns of communication.
  • I can affirm helping, healing or caring.
  • I can affirm positive thinking and living.
  • I can affirm heart attitudes that affirm others.
  • I can affirm when people “Pay It Forward.”
  • I can affirm a forgiving spirit
  • I can affirm teamwork and selfless energy.

You Got The Picture!

Embracing a “personal affirmation perspective,” you can use its life giving power to affirm…

  • A variety of things
  • In a variety of ways
  • For a variety of reasons

And you can do so in business and the business of life.

Additional Questions To Prime The Proverbial Pump

  • How has the power of affirmation — or lack of the same — influenced your life?
  • Are you training others?  Does anyone on your team need to be affirmed?
  • This next week, how might you put on your “affirming eyes” for the purpose of enhancing the lives of any of the ones closest to your heart?
  • What values could you affirm this week (or in the future) in the lives of people?  How might you do that?
  • The subtitle of this site reads “Harnessing the power purpose and skill development for social marketing excellence.”  Should you be an attraction marketer in any way, shape or form, how might you use the power of affirmation in your own business world this week or in the next?

One More Time

Affirmation

Gifting the sense of worth to people

by creative design and purpose-filled resolve.

© Lee Wise

And…

“Review of the obvious for the obvious to rule”

____________

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Lee is a writer an online marketer and coach. With a passion for on purpose living and making a positive impact in the world, he seeks to encourage people in their personal and professional lives. See his Inspirational Handbook for Attraction Marketers by clicking here http://attractionmarketinghandbook.com

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_________________

Reply Or Respond…

Several “brain food” questions for those on the business side of life:

  • Anyone in your organization that you feel could benefit from these brief thoughts?
  • Are you in a mastermind group of any sort?  Could you benefit by doing some “affirmation brainstorming” regarding the nature of your group and your influence?
  • What about any of your blogging efforts: could you develop and share your own, personalized thoughts on the value of affirmation in business or what I so often term as “the business of life”?

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Attraction Marketing Excellence – A Facebook Syndication Example

Tribe Syndication Blogging Attraction Marketing

Attraction Marketing Excellence

A Facebook Syndication Example

Interested in learning about attraction marketing and/or especially the idea of whole idea of what is being termed “Tribal Syndication“? I would suggest that you head on over to Sye Well’s recent post entitled The Facebook Syndication Project.

My General Observations

From this side of the fence it will be a short post.  What I wanted to do was to share with you my personal reflections from my perspective as an attraction marketer.

  • First, it was an experiment.  She stepped out and decided to try something simply to see if it worked.  My point: she took a measure of risk.
  • Second, and I think the major point for me, was the sincerity of her presentation relative to not only complementing those who posted their links on her page, but also taking the time to be very clear regarding what she saw to be the value of other people’s work. Honestly, when I saw the length of the video I began to think “Well, I may not be around here long.”  But as I began to catch some of her comments, I found myself thinking: “I wonder what she is going to say next?”
  • Third, she gave social marketing tips along the way.  Whether it was related to the whole idea of tribe syndication or simply how to make use of comments, as she made her way through the video she dispersed helpful content relative to how to be a success in your own syndication efforts.

Expanding A Bit More…

At the risk of being repetitious, I would like to highlight several thoughts which may be good for many of us to remember as we continue to learn and grow in the art of attraction marketing or marketing online in general.

  • Sincerity attracts: and it should!
  • We can point people in the direction of other people and feel comfortable in doing so.
  • Think like an “educator” when blogging.  In other words, help people to learn from what you say whenever and however you can.
  • Take advantage of current trends: i.e., right now it is video marketing.
  • Keep learning.  You ask: “Where did you get that from, Lee?”  Answer: from the last point. If we are to be taking advantage of current trends, then we will be challenged to keep learning and growing ourselves.
  • Build others up.  I bring this up as a separate “insight” because it her example stood out to me in this area.

Thanks, Sye!

AI can’t imagine your not traveling over to her post and listening to what she has to say.  And when you do, may I encourage you to take the time to make any positive comments that you make think of?  Again, you can go here.

____________

Lee is a writer an online marketer and coach. With a passion for on purpose living and making a positive impact in the world, he seeks to encourage people in their personal and professional lives. See his Inspirational Handbook for Attraction Marketers here http://attractionmarketinghandbook.com

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______________________

Reflect, Respond Or Reply…

  • Do you have any additional thoughts you could share with regards to marketing on Facebook?
  • In addition to Facebook marketing, how about blogging?  As you are thinking about — or have thought about — the whole idea of blogging and/ or blogging to make an impact in the lives of others, what advice might you give?
  • In reading over my post, any additional insights or thoughts drift on in to your mental field of dreams?
  • Don’t forget to share! If you like this post, please send send it on!!

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